Dating with lonesome Dutch babe

I've had a few casual relationships, but not a real one yet. I'm not really looking for one because I still feel way too young to commit. The occasional get-together is wonderful. Ideally, I'd like to find a regular sex partner.

I'm an athlete. I love fitness. I don't have much interest in the men in that group. Sure, they're great as buddies, but when it comes to romance and eroticism, I prefer a teddy bear of a man. Do you think you are? And do you like a fit woman? Then I hope to hear from you soon.

I've been single for a long time and I've quite enjoyed it, but given my young age, I also want something to hold me accountable. Not necessarily for a relationship, but it would be nice to have a good friend.

My ex was someone who did what he wanted, and I can't deal with that. I'm looking for a man who's considerate of his surroundings and doesn't go down a bad path just to boost his status with friends!