Sleep with beautiful Dutch girl

Right now, not much is happening in my relationship, and I mean that in a negative way. Lately, we've been seeing each other sporadically, and for me, that doesn't constitute a relationship. I'm looking for a man who will visit me regularly for some quality time together.

There's a lid for every pot, they always say to me, but where is the lid for me?

Seduce me with sweet words whispered in my ear, let me know what you find so beautiful about me and how you'd like to spoil me for a weekend. I'm all ears and easily persuaded to make love with you sometime.

To be honest, I'm in a relationship where sex isn't really the main focus. He'd rather choose his family than have sex with me every day. Can you help me with this?