Penetrate teenage Dutch student

I would absolutely love to have a partner again, a man who loves me and I love him, who's good-looking and has some class. If all that works out, there's a good chance we'll grow old together.

If you message me, you should know that I'm not looking for a one-time connection. What I'm looking for is a charming young man who, like me, is single and wants a committed relationship.

Many people think my hair color makes me a goth, let me debunk that right away. But I do think it's a shame that you're pigeonholed by your appearance. And so I'm looking for a nice person who isn't like that, actually.

I could use a little comfort, but it has to come from you, not from my parents. Of course, I can always turn to them, but with heartbreak, I can't reach them. Hopefully, I can turn to you, and you can offer me more than just comfort.