Dating with teenage Dutch student

Because of my strict upbringing, I'm not allowed to have sex before marriage. I can't even bring a boyfriend home unless I'm absolutely certain I'm going to marry him. How can you possibly know for sure that you want to marry someone if you're not allowed to spend time together?

If you would like to be considered by me to pamper my body for an evening, then you must send me a sexy message in which you tell me how you would like to spend that evening.

People quickly think I'm a slut because I enjoy oral sex, but that doesn't necessarily say anything about my personality, does it? I'm a really sweet girl!

I really don't show you any mercy. You have to beg for me to stop, and even then, I'll keep going for a little while. So I'm looking for someone who really wants to go all the way with me and isn't afraid of a few slaps on the backside. Ballbusting is often the dessert, by the way, so be warned.