Email teenage Dutch student

I'm selling myself short, especially in relationships. There's little respect for me, and I'm treated like a slave. I want to meet a man who will take me away and treat me kindly.

I've had a steady job for two years, and I feel great about it. In my free time, I enjoy going to the gym, eating out, going out with friends, and going to the cinema. But there's always a moment when I feel like I'm missing something in my life, and that's a very sweet man. Who wants to get to know me better?

I recently went to a sauna and got a tour. They even have a private sauna for couples who want intimacy. It's used a lot, and I'd love to go there sometime. I want sex in the sauna and hot tub. I'd go there for a day and just let loose.

Should we go for it? For an evening of hot, steamy sex? I'm definitely up for it. Let's grab a drink somewhere first and tease each other a bit, and then we'll go to your place or mine together, and then...