Email teenage Dutch student

I dream of being able to choose a man every day who wants to share my bed. In reality, I haven't met anyone who's actually interested in spending a night with me.

I'm getting more out of life than I've ever done before, but the stumbling block is my boyfriend. He prefers to sit in front of the TV every night, and we don't go out or do fun things together.

I'm a spring and summer person, so I love traveling and enjoying every ray of sunshine. But we also have a lot of rain in our country, so who'll be my sunshine then?

The tension is already coursing through my body at the thought of role-playing. I want to be in the role where I have to be submissive. What I picture is a police officer cuffing me and punishing me for being so naughty.