Sexdate with lovely Dutch girl

After my ex broke up with me, I feel a bit awkward being single. It feels like I'm to blame and the cause of the breakup, while my ex was with someone else. I'd like to meet a guy again who wants to have a good time with me.

Actually, I'm a bit of a headstrong lady and need to be put in my place every now and then. I hope you have that strength and I accept it from you; only then can we have a good relationship.

I'm not a bourgeois type; I want to explore and have adventures, preferably with a nice man who's in love with me. Having fun together and letting love flourish is what I strive for.

My preferences are indeed still a bit limited, as I'm lacking some experience in that area. But I can certainly describe it as romantic: candles, wine, music, and then that one nice guy.