Sleep with lovely Dutch girl

You'd think it would be pretty easy for a young woman to find a man. Unfortunately, it's not as simple as I thought. But maybe I'm a bit picky. I'm young, independent, enterprising, and athletic, and I'm actually looking for a man who's also wonderfully athletic but also a bit mischievous.

As a woman, are you allowed to say you're just looking for hot, sexy sex and nothing more? Often, that immediately makes you a cheap slut, but why? Can't I just enjoy all the delicious things around me?

I miss the warmth and the attention. My boyfriend is mostly focused on his friends. He and his friends are constantly going out, and then I'm left alone again. He hangs out with them more often than with me. I really get the feeling he doesn't find me interesting at all anymore. So now I'm looking for someone who does find me interesting enough.

Young lady here, with absolutely no experience, looking for a slightly older man to teach me everything! I do want to be a bit experienced when I get my first boyfriend.