Dating with lonesome Dutch babe

What I'm looking for is a man who's willing to get to know each other first and then see if we're on the same page. Meanwhile, we'll do fun things, not to mention sex. Or a lovely evening on the couch with a drink—I can think of so many fun things.

Enjoying life together would certainly be great, but if you can't enjoy the good life alone, can you enjoy it together?

I'm still figuring out what I really want in life. Right now, I mainly want to have fun.

Secretly, I'm hoping to find a very sweet and sensitive man here to pick my flower! I've been waiting to take that step for a while now! I'm just scared, so I really need an experienced man who will deflower me with the necessary respect! Very calm and sensual! Not like most of the people I've tried it with! They rip my clothes off, fumble over their pants, and at that moment, I feel more violated than attracted, so I try to get away as quickly as possible!