Fling with lovely Dutch girl

I'm in a relationship that's completely unexciting, but I don't want to break up either. It's difficult. I want more excitement in my life, not boring, straightforward sex. I might as well start playing myself, which is almost more exciting.

I think the stigma of being single and not pursuing married men is the biggest nonsense in the world. I know plenty of married men are severely lacking sex at home. Men who seek more excitement, and there are plenty of other reasons. It's precisely these men I want to help. I'm not falling in love or looking for a relationship, but I help men in relationships with a bit more excitement. What am I doing wrong? Absolutely nothing, and I'll keep going.

I just got out of a relationship, so please spare me your relationship woes; I'm not looking for that. I might not be ready for a new relationship yet either. What I'm looking for is someone who knows how to play nicely with each other. I find role-playing incredibly exciting. Challenging each other in just the right way. Discovering each other while also being mysterious.

Do you like regular sex or do you enjoy something more extreme? I prefer the latter. Have you ever fisted a woman? I have been fisted, and it really turns me on. How big are your hands, by the way?