Dating with delicious Dutch student

I recently moved back in with my mother and am looking for new, exciting contacts. I used to live with my father, and oh my, he was so strict, it was so outrageous, haha. So now I can do what I want again.

A while back, I had my first boyfriend. It's already over, though. He deflowered me, but it wasn't quite what I'd imagined. It hurt, he was very quick, and not nearly as sweet as I'd hoped. Is sex so awful then? I always hear good things about it, but I really don't find it beautiful. Can someone prove to me that it can be different?

After doing my laundry, I make a discovery: about 80% of my socks are single, but I never hear them complain. Now I could go find the other socks, but I'm not so keen on that. So why not find someone who knows this problem?

How serious are you? A serious man is certainly a possibility for me, but I do have one strict requirement: you must have a really high libido. I don't find a man attractive anymore if he just crawls under the covers night after night without doing anything. I'd rather have a guy who takes the bull by the horns and takes me hard every night.