Sex with lonesome Dutch babe

What he really needs to know about me is that when I'm really quiet, I'm thinking about something important. If it takes too long, I simply don't know the answer.

Life is busy and chaotic for me, I'm not the best at planning things.

What I'm looking for is a man who's willing to get to know each other first and then see if we're on the same page. Meanwhile, we'll do fun things, not to mention sex. Or a lovely evening on the couch with a drink—I can think of so many fun things.

I'm not someone who just jumps from one boyfriend to the next; once things are right, the man who loves me is enough for me. However, my boyfriend cheated on me and thinks I should get back at him mercilessly.