Sleep with lovely Dutch girl

I go out with my friends, but I haven't met any nice men yet, at least not any men who want to start a relationship with me. If you think differently, I'd like to get to know you.

I moved in together too quickly, and now I'm realizing there's more to it than just fucking for the sake of fucking. There's also enjoyment and making love. My boyfriend doesn't want that; he just wants to fuck, and fucking isn't really what I want anymore. Can you help me get out of this rut? Secretly, though?

My job is fun, my life is fun, but I just miss a man to do something fun with every now and then.

Men my age usually only want one thing. And they don't really have much common sense yet. Sorry if I sound generalizing, but I'm fed up with it by now. I'm looking for an older man who wants to build a relationship, is romantic, and still has both feet on the ground.