Date with delicious Dutch student

I like to get to know a man a little before I go any further with him. That means we meet up somewhere and have a nice chat and such. And then there's a follow-up date. Or not. I hope you're not put off by the slow pace, but that's just me.

I've had some bad experiences in my previous relationship, especially erotically. I'm now looking for someone who wants to help me process that. If we get along well, I'm open to a relationship.

I love life and want to have as much fun as possible. I love romance and I love to cuddle.

I still need to fully develop, but I'd also like to try a harder approach. I'm looking for a man with sufficient experience with S&M, because that's what I want to experience. It's nice to be tough on each other and to take advantage of each other a bit.