Dating with young Dutch teen

I've found myself in a situation I didn't expect. I thought I'd found true love, but now it turns out my boyfriend doesn't want to live with me, and I assumed he would. I don't want a long-distance relationship; I've been through that before, and it wasn't successful.

I'm ordinary, and I want ordinary. No crazy or extreme things for me! No outdoor activities or anything like that. Just... ordinary :-) If you're interested, please let me know!

I absolutely love red myself, but I think you've probably already figured that out. Are you just as in love with the color red, or do you prefer something else?

Living together and still looking for a fuck buddy? Yes, that's right. The sex with my boyfriend is decent, but I want more. I'd like to go to a swingers club, have sex in a pool or in the woods, maybe try a threesome with a man or a woman, and I'm curious about soft SM. These are all things my boyfriend doesn't want to know about, so I've taken the plunge and hope to find someone here who might already have experience with it or wants to explore it with me. Discretion is essential, and I can't host myself.