Date with lovely Dutch girl

I'm not looking for a relationship right away, not even sex, but something in between. Shall we start with a nice date?

During the day, I don't mind being alone; I'm surrounded by people. But at night, when I'm lying in bed and my fingers slip into my panties, I'm terribly annoyed that I have to do it all myself again. I don't want that anymore; I need a man who will slip his fingers into my panties, preferably every night...

You don't need to know anything about my private life. Just that I'm in a relationship, so it has to be discreet. I'm also looking for a submissive man. After we've made good arrangements, we'll have a good time. I'm a bit of a hard man, so you need to be able to take some beating.

I recently moved in with my boyfriend, and boy, did I have to get used to it. Suddenly, you have to justify what you do with your friends. I didn't even have to do that with my parents. He says cozying up on the couch is fun too, right? But he doesn't like what I really enjoy.