Fucking with sweet Dutch girl

I have lots of friends and am also very sociable. I often go out on the weekends, but I'm tired of just going with my friends. I'm a good conversationalist, but I'm an even better listener.

What I'm looking for is a man who's willing to get to know each other first and then see if we're on the same page. Meanwhile, we'll do fun things, not to mention sex. Or a lovely evening on the couch with a drink—I can think of so many fun things.

As a woman, are you allowed to say you're just looking for hot, sexy sex and nothing more? Often, that immediately makes you a cheap slut, but why? Can't I just enjoy all the delicious things around me?

I've been feeling lonely lately and I've noticed I'm not looking for a good night out anymore. I think I've been through too many bad things, but this way I'm obviously not going to find a boyfriend. I hope I have success in my search for a nice guy.