Dating with young Dutch teen

Doggy style, Amazon style, or vice versa, a pillow under my bottom, or you sitting on a chair. Need I go on?

Usually, it's said that the lady gets to decide what happens, but in this case, I'll leave it up to you. Just tell me what you like to do, and we'll do it. Good idea?

I haven't been very lucky in love yet. A man has cheated on me twice, and I hope it doesn't happen a third time. That's why I want to get to know you well before we officially announce we're dating.

I moved in together too quickly, and now I'm realizing there's more to it than just fucking for the sake of fucking. There's also enjoyment and making love. My boyfriend doesn't want that; he just wants to fuck, and fucking isn't really what I want anymore. Can you help me get out of this rut? Secretly, though?