Sexdate with delicious Dutch student

I lived with a man for a year who just wouldn't accept that I had my own life. Constantly doing what he wanted was starting to wear me down. I'm glad I distanced myself from him and am now looking for a man who's exactly right for me.

I always act very confident in photos, but I'm not really that confident. I have the wildest fantasies, but I'm terrified of making them come true. I'm just a scaredy-cat, really. I don't want that; I want to be who I appear to be, and I want to make my fantasies come true. So I'm looking for a man who has a lot of self-confidence and can help me with that.

I find it difficult to find a work-life balance. I'd love some help in learning this, preferably from a fun, spontaneous young man who really likes me.

I'm someone who always seeks a challenge in life, and nothing is too much for me. I've already climbed rocks and done some abseiling. And now I'm looking for something new.